Why Does Dream Affect Our Day - ENGLISH

It is kinda funny tho, but, I just want to share my silly experience. (just tell me if you had encountered  the same thing)

Last night, I was dreaming about something miraculous. Seeing the beautiful scenery of my life, experiencing the great scene I had never done. But, that kind of dream commonly ended by force. Probably dying to pee or by the alarm. 

According to the knowledge I got, dreams are affected by our minds. The things that we are used to thinking, the things that we really want to achieve, or something that we really hate, someone you miss or you crush. Those all just make sense. because part of our brain still working while we were sleeping.

Not only that, the worst thing about a dream is when we wake up. The normal dream often doesn't affect any of our life. But, the rare dream really drags our real life. For example, when I have a dream about a disaster, the accident of my folks, went to the place I really want, etc. My heart shook so hard and try to figure it out, what does the meaning of that.

Eventually, we have to believe that dream is the flower of sleep. Take the benefits and try to ignore the bad part. And don't forget to pray before sleep and after you get awake.

Annoying Question?

When do you get married?

Have you ever feel mad or sick when your relatives ask you an annoying question? like the first question in this writing. Especially in this country, or wider in Asia, most of our folks always seducing our private life by asking us some private questions. 

Those questions habitually irritate our feeling. Some people take it deep, some others simply fuck it.

Can we just discuss why people asking questions? Basically, someone asking because they are curious, need an answer, confused, or for assessment, or the worst is just for insulting.

The above reasons make sense to be understanding, particularly answering those questions. Probably those annoying question is the way God strengthen our soul to face this beautiful world. 

for me, those annoying question is not really matter. Because I don't really give a sh*t. living this beautiful life is just the most grateful I've ever been to. No need to consider those annoying questions.. 

Simply just fuck it.

Is It Okay If We Failed Our Own Commitment?

Having commitment is a really hard skill that only strong people could make. Especially if you are committed to yourself. It means there are no significant risks or impacts if you failed your commitment. You probably still feeling unwind even though you failed it. that is why dealing with ourselves is harder than other people.

The first question we have to know before any further discussion is, what is the commitment itself. So recite from the Oxford dictionary,
commitment is the state or quality of being dedicated to a cause, activity, etc. 

Someone or something who has a commitment commonly has goals to achieve. Let us see our surroundings, this country, the government, our company, our school. they all have goals and missions to accomplish. 

we should discuss is, why are people making commitments.

what is a commitment, 

why people make a commitment

the Difference between 

how to be discipline on our commitment. 

Commitment is closed to promise. In a commitment, we will face the reward and the risks. 

Resolution of 2021?

 I think today is the first time I try to write down paragraphs in English.  

what should I write?  I think I need to tell you about my resolution in 2021. 

as we know, as a Moslem, we have a faith that everything happens in our lives is destined. It is written in Qur'an 

أَلَمْ تَعْلَمْ أَنَّ اللهَ يَعْلَمُ مَافِي السَّمَآءِ وَاْلأَرْضِ إِنَّ ذَلِكَ فِي كِتَابٍ إِنَّ ذَلِكَ عَلَى اللهِ يَسِيرٌ

Do you not know that Allah knows what is in the heavens and the earth? Surely these are in the Book. Surely these are easy to Allah.` QS Al-hajj 70

 Notwithstanding, it is just fine because we have a plan for what should we have or what should we do. 

So 2020 is the year that we all faced its suffering, happiness, unites. 2020 thought us a lot of things, patient, sacrifice, new habits, self-control, etc.  So in 2021, we are not far from this kind of outbreak. 

1. Spiritual 

I believe that religion is the most important goal that we have to achieve because we all would be back on the resurrection day in the akhirat. So i have a plan to do this, 

a. Pray 5 times a day on time
b. Fasting 4 times in a month
c. Early Pray (tahajud) 2 times a week
d. memorize juz 30
e. getting married
f. go to Mecca to do Umra with my mom and my wife

2. Jobs.

I am not really triggered to work harder on my job, I just want to do my best for my company.  the specific goal is, at least I get 6 scores at the beginning of 2021.

3. Personal Life

I think I  want to be more thankful to myself. Praising God for what I have. and do some exercise.

a. swimming once a month
b. running once a month
c. cycling once a month
d. exercise 150 hours a week


so I think, people may have plans.. nevertheless, God always knows the best.

wish us all luck